{"id":4656,"date":"2019-08-22T19:35:38","date_gmt":"2019-08-22T19:35:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/?p=4656"},"modified":"2019-08-22T19:35:38","modified_gmt":"2019-08-22T19:35:38","slug":"hasherezade-dtoadq-hazeyyoutube-aprilwensel-when-they-ask-for-help-vs-do-it-for-me-pretty-much-everyone-will-try-to-help-but-if-you-come-across-as-lazy-entitled-or-incapable-of-describing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/?p=4656","title":{"rendered":"@hasherezade @dtoadq @HazeyYoutube @aprilwensel When they ask for *help* vs *do it for me*, pretty much everyone will try to *help* But if you come across as lazy, entitled, or incapable of describing what you\u2019ve tried, it looks like you\u2019re sloughing your work onto others (who are already busy with their own work)"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">When they ask for *help* vs *do it for me*, pretty much everyone will try to *help*<\/p>\n<p>But if you come across as lazy, entitled, or incapable of describing what you\u2019ve tried, it looks like you\u2019re sloughing your work onto others (who are already busy with their own work)<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Warren Myers ?? (@warrenmyers) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/warrenmyers\/status\/1164621777747812352?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">August 22, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/>\nfrom Twitter https:\/\/twitter.com\/warrenmyers<\/p>\n<p>August 22, 2019 at 03:34PM<br \/>\nvia <a href=\"https:\/\/ifttt.com\/?ref=da&#038;site=wordpress\">IFTTT<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When they ask for *help* vs *do it for me*, pretty much everyone will try to *help* But if you come across as lazy, entitled, or incapable of describing what you\u2019ve tried, it looks like you\u2019re sloughing your work onto others (who are already busy with their own work) &mdash; Warren Myers ?? (@warrenmyers) August &hellip;<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/?p=4656\" class=\"more-link pen_button pen_element_default pen_icon_arrow_double\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">@hasherezade @dtoadq @HazeyYoutube @aprilwensel When they ask for *help* vs *do it for me*, pretty much everyone will try to *help* But if you come across as lazy, entitled, or incapable of describing what you\u2019ve tried, it looks like you\u2019re sloughing your work onto others (who are already busy with their own work)<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4],"tags":[792],"keyring_services":[],"class_list":["post-4656","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blih","tag-twitter"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4656","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4656"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4656\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4657,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4656\/revisions\/4657"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4656"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4656"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4656"},{"taxonomy":"keyring_services","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fkeyring_services&post=4656"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}