{"id":3478,"date":"2009-10-03T03:23:37","date_gmt":"2009-10-03T03:23:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/warrenmyers.com\/blog\/?p=105"},"modified":"2009-10-03T03:23:37","modified_gmt":"2009-10-03T03:23:37","slug":"28-done","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/?p=3478","title":{"rendered":"28 done"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have just completed my 28th year as an individual person.<\/p>\n<p>A year ago, I worked for HP and was getting ready to go to Chicago to start the rollout of HPSA for HSBC.<\/p>\n<p>11 months ago I was getting ready to go to London to participate in more HSBC stuff.<\/p>\n<p>10 months ago I was enjoying a week vacation away from technology in Bamber Bridge, UK.<\/p>\n<p>9 months ago my parents were just getting ready to head back to NY after visiting me in NC for a couple weeks.<\/p>\n<p>But while all those were fun, they pale in comparison to what happened 8 months ago. On 1 February 2009 I was &#8220;matched&#8221; with a Kentucky girl named &#8220;Christina&#8221; on <a title=\"(new window) - highly recommended, though, if you're single and looking!\" href=\"http:\/\/www.eharmony.com\/success\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">eHarmony<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I sure didn&#8217;t know 8 months ago how very, VERY different this year would be from any previously.<\/p>\n<p>A few days after being matched with Christina, I started making plans to go to Hong Kong for work to complete the HSBC rollout. Then, part way through February, I found out my position was being targeted for a &#8220;workforce reduction&#8221; due to slow services sales.<\/p>\n<p>7 months ago I was in Hong Kong, finalizing my work with HSBC, and searching for a new job &#8211; and, oh yeah! &#8211; talking to this sweet southern girl in Kentucky.<\/p>\n<p>I was also being intermittently spoken-to by a recruiter in Singapore about some HPSA contract work for an &#8220;investment bank&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Part way into March I moved from merely emailing Christina to talking to her on the phone.<\/p>\n<p>6 months ago I was more aggressively job-hunting because my tenure with HP was closing-out quickly. I was also planning a week trip to Florida with my dad for the EAA&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sun-n-fun.org\/\">Sun-n-Fun<\/a> convention and airshow.<\/p>\n<p>5 months ago I was debating whether or not to accept the position with Barclay&#8217;s Capital. Oh &#8211; and planning to meet Christina in person for our first &#8220;date&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>On 9 May I met Christina at a small Italian restaurant in Corbin KY called Dino&#8217;s. We enjoyed some pasta, talked, and then went to Cumberland Falls. Talked more, watched the flood waters course through the gorge, noticed a wedding party getting pictures, and then headed into town for a coffee &#8211; where we again talked more.<\/p>\n<p>After a few hours, we parted, and I headed-on to Detroit to visit some old friends I&#8217;d never met.<\/p>\n<p>2 weeks later, we were making plans for a trip to Asheville for our second in-person date. I had already decided I liked Christina a <strong><em>LOT<\/em><\/strong>, but was nervous about expressing that &#8211; so I held off till just before our time together was done. Turns out I coulda said something sooner, cause [thankfully!] she felt the same way \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n<p>Next up was scheduling a trip to meet her parents. I spent a bunch of time in KY before I left for Singapore. Wish I&#8217;d spent more!<\/p>\n<p>3.5 months ago I arrived in Singapore for a few weeks to start working for Barclays. I was also eagerly awaiting my month-long trip back to the US to see my sweetheart.<\/p>\n<p>Part way into July I boarded my flight for Tokyo, as the first leg in a 36-hour Thursday which was going to terminate with me driving to Corbin to see Christina. The next day we flew to Boston for my friend Dan&#8217;s wedding.<\/p>\n<p>The following weekend I made official a commitment I&#8217;d already made in my head weeks previously, and <a href=\"http:\/\/antipaucity.com\/2009\/07\/23\/engaged\/\">asked Christina to marry me<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>Now I&#8217;m counting-down the days (9.5!) till my\u00a0fianc\u00e9e\u00a0arrives in Singapore for two weeks!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s truly amazing how much can happen in a year. Or a month. Or a day.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m continually amazed, awed, and thankful at how God orchestrates everything in our lives together for good.<\/p>\n<p>I can only imagine what God has in store for the next year! If it goes anything like I hope, my next birthday won&#8217;t be alone &#8211; it will be with my wife!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have just completed my 28th year as an individual person. A year ago, I worked for HP and was getting ready to go to Chicago to start the rollout of HPSA for HSBC. 11 months ago I was getting ready to go to London to participate in more HSBC stuff. 10 months ago I &hellip;<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/?p=3478\" class=\"more-link pen_button pen_element_default pen_icon_arrow_double\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">28 done<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[880,31],"tags":[],"keyring_services":[],"class_list":["post-3478","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-meanderings","category-personal"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3478","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3478"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3478\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3478"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3478"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3478"},{"taxonomy":"keyring_services","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fkeyring_services&post=3478"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}