{"id":1866,"date":"2013-02-21T08:21:37","date_gmt":"2013-02-21T13:21:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/antipaucity.com\/?p=1866"},"modified":"2013-02-21T08:21:37","modified_gmt":"2013-02-21T13:21:37","slug":"the-art-of-seduction-by-robert-greene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/merikebi.warrenmyers.com\/?p=1866","title":{"rendered":"the art of seduction by robert greene"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4 style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Warning:<\/h4>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">This book contains, in places, intense terminology, and is directed at mentally-mature audiences<\/p>\n<h4>Now back to our regularly-scheduled bog post<\/h4>\n<p>After having read {{The 48 Laws of Power}} (and enjoying it), I decided to read some of {{Robert Greene}}&#8217;s other popular works. So, I <a href=\"http:\/\/antipaucity.com\/2013\/01\/28\/mastery-by-robert-greene\/#.URkUfqVlH00\">read<\/a> {{Mastery}}.<\/p>\n<p>And then I read {{The Art of Seduction}}.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">(I haven&#8217;t read his work {{The 33 Strategies of War}} &#8211; but it&#8217;s in my queue. I anticipate, perhaps wrongly, that it will be very similar to {{Sun Tzu}}&#8217;s {{The Art of War}} (which I <a href=\"http:\/\/antipaucity.com\/2012\/12\/17\/the-art-of-war-by-sun-tzu\/#.URkWE6VlH02\">reviewed<\/a> then\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/antipaucity.com\/tag\/sun-tzu\/#.URkV-qVlH00\">reprinted<\/a> hereon); but I&#8217;ll have to wait until I&#8217;ve read it to know for sure.)<\/p>\n<p>This book strays quite a bit from Greene&#8217;s core strengths, in my opinion, ranging into an arena of thought and action that feels far more &#8220;reported upon&#8221; than &#8220;acted upon&#8221;. Maybe it&#8217;s just how I had gotten used to his previous style (or, at least, his style in the books of his I read previously), but I liked this book the least.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"line-height: 13px;\" data-mce-mark=\"1\">Part One &#8211; The Seductive Character<\/span>\n<ol>\n<li>The Siren<\/li>\n<li>The Rake<\/li>\n<li>The Ideal Lover<\/li>\n<li>The Dandy<\/li>\n<li>The Natural<\/li>\n<li>The Coquette<\/li>\n<li>The Charmer<\/li>\n<li>The Charismatic<\/li>\n<li>The Star<\/li>\n<li>The Anti-Seducer<\/li>\n<li>The Seducer&#8217;s Victims &#8211; The Eighteen Types<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<li>Part Two &#8211; The Seductive Process\n<ol>\n<li>Phase One: Separation &#8211; Stirring Interest and Desire\n<ol>\n<li>Choose the Right Victim<\/li>\n<li>Create a False Sense of Security &#8211; Approach Indirectly<\/li>\n<li>Send Mixed Signals<\/li>\n<li>Appear to be an Object of Desire &#8211; Create Triangles<\/li>\n<li>Create a Need &#8211; Stir Anxiety and Discontent<\/li>\n<li>Master the Art of Insinuation<\/li>\n<li>Enter Their Spirit<\/li>\n<li>Create Temptations<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<li>Phase Two: Lead Astray &#8211; Creating Pleasure and Confusion\n<ol>\n<li>Keep Them in Suspense &#8211; What Comes Next?<\/li>\n<li>Use the Demonic Power of Words to Sow Confusion<\/li>\n<li>Pay Attention to Detail<\/li>\n<li>Poeticize Your Presence<\/li>\n<li>Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability<\/li>\n<li>Confuse Desire and Reality &#8211; The Perfect Illusion<\/li>\n<li>Isolate the Victim<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<li>Phase Three: The Precipice &#8211; Deepening the Effect Through Extreme Measures\n<ol>\n<li>Prove Yourself<\/li>\n<li>Effect a Regression<\/li>\n<li>Stir up the Transgressive and Taboo<\/li>\n<li>Use Spiritual Lures<\/li>\n<li>Mix Pleasure with Pain<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<li>Phase Four: Moving in for the Kill\n<ol>\n<li>Give Them Space to Fail &#8211; The Pursuer is Pursued<\/li>\n<li>Use Physical Lures<\/li>\n<li>Master the Art of the Bold Move<\/li>\n<li>Beware the Aftereffects<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<li>Appendix A: Seductive Environment \/ Seductive Time<\/li>\n<li>Appendix B: Soft Seduction: How to Sell Anything to the Masses<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Skip all of the sketchy, individually manipulative material &#8211; and there&#8217;s nothing left to the book except some dry reporting &#8230; and an acknowledgements page that includes two cats and his parents.<\/p>\n<p>I do still love the layout used in all of {{Robert Greene}}&#8217;s books (maybe it&#8217;s a &#8220;{{Joost Elffers Book}}&#8221; thing?) &#8211; with abstracts under each chapter title in the table of contents, callouts\/sidebars in the margins and funkified<sup>*<\/sup> typesetting for emphasis in many places.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Is this a book worth <em>reading<\/em>? I believe that answer is a cautious &#8220;yes&#8221;.<\/li>\n<li>Is this a book worth\u00a0<em>owning<\/em>? I cannot answer that for\u00a0<em>you<\/em> &#8211; borrow it from your library first, and\u00a0<strong>then<\/strong> decide.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Come back tomorrow for chapter abstracts.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><sup>* <sub><a href=\"http:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=funkified\">urbandictionary.com<\/a> defines this term in many negative ways &#8211; I definitely intend to convey a positive one here, eg entry 4 on UD<\/sub><\/sup><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Warning: This book contains, in places, intense terminology, and is directed at mentally-mature audiences Now back to our regularly-scheduled bog post After having read {{The 48 Laws of Power}} (and enjoying it), I decided to read some of {{Robert Greene}}&#8217;s other popular works. So, I read {{Mastery}}. 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